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Our time with Debbie was brief, but positive in every way. We originally sent her email wherein she responded that same day. We then met her at my office for an interview. She made such an impression that we invited her to have a playdate with my children, who are 2 and 6 years old. We have had nannies for our children for over 6 years and have seen the good and the bad. She was actually the first nanny we invited to meet them after having spoken to and met approximately 35 other nannies. When she arrived at our house, she immediately took an interest in the children. She was very attentive and asked questions to see how we would like her to care for our children. Following the playdate, we offered her a full-time nanny position with our family. At her first day and each day thereafter she was punctual, pleasant, couteous, professional and respectful. The children were her priority. Through no fault of her own, our prior nanny (who had been with us for 1 1/2 years) advised that she was no longer relocating (which was the reason we were looking for a nanny). After much consideration, we felt it was best for the children to be with the nanny they had known. During our brief time with Debbie, it was truly a pleasure to have her in our house and as our nanny. Please feel free to contact us with any questions. Sincerely, Stacy


Stacy,Delray Beach, FL

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The Art of Dining Out

10 simple ways to teach your tots table manners

by Candi Wingate, originally published on babble.com


When dining out, every parent knows it's a tall order to keep kids in their seats, napkins on their laps, utensils in hand, and speaking in an inside voice while behaving politely. In this way, restaurants are like a public stage for your parenting skills. When my son acted up at restaurants, I worried if nearby diners would question my parenting abilities or my wisdom in taking my little one out to eat. Feeling embarrassed, I wondered how I could ensure this wouldn't happen again. Here are 10 simple things (I learned the hard way) that parents can do to help their kids learn table manners.

  1. Start at home.When your little one spews half-chewed mashed potatoes all over your kitchen, let her know that walls aren't meant for wearing veggies. Make it clear that there are better ways to communicate that you're done eating, such as “No, thank you” or “May I be excused from the table?”
  2. Go to kid-friendly restaurants.Personally, whenever we go to fast food restaurants, I'm in duck-and-cover mode: I fully expect chicken nuggets or French fries to be lobbed at my head. When it comes to kid-friendly establishments, I think most people are on board with my keep-your-eyes-peeled-for-incoming-rounds wariness. When your kids are little, these are safe environments for them to learn in (and you'll be safe from judging eyes).
  3. Set expectations before going out.Whether you're going to Burger Town or to Grandma's house, make sure your kids understand what behavior you expect from them. Specify consequences for good and bad behavior. A consequence for good behavior may be the opportunity to have dessert, and a consequence for bad behavior may be going home mid-meal and subsequently being denied a bedtime story.
  4. Tire them out before leaving the houseChoose activities that will lead to calm during your dining experience. Depending on the kid, this could be running around the exterior of the house three times or reading a book about good little kittens (with table manners). However you achieve it, calm kids are better-behaved kids.
  5. Bring entertainmentKids often perceive dining in restaurants as a long and tedious experience. (How many of us have heard, "CAN WE GO YET?!") Nip these doldrums in the bud by packing silent toys and games like puzzle or coloring books that'll hold your kids' interest.
  6. Ask them questionsIf they're up for it, try starting conversations with your kids that involve their participation and imagination. Start with simple questions such as “If you could be any food, what would you be?” and answer the question yourself so that they understand the reciprocal nature of conversations.
  7. Order for themWhen your kids are first learning how to eat out, they'll need some direction when it comes to food selection. Left to their own devices, they may skip veggies, fruits and proteins and go right for the sweet stuff. Guide them to the best bites for their nutrition - and your budget (salmon vs. lobster tail) - and ultimately they'll be able to make wise decisions on their own.
  8. Order appetizers at your own riskFor some kids, having an appetizer brought quickly to the table helps keep them occupied while they are waiting for their entrée. However, for kids with smaller appetites, appetizers can make them full and ready to leave before their (and your) entrée is served.
  9. Admonish in privateIf your kids decide to behave contrary to your expectations, remind them (as calmly and quietly as possible) of your expectations. And if you have non-family diners at your table, you should discreetly take the errant child to the restroom and have a conversation there. Redirecting or embarrassing your kids in front of others is generally inadvisable (you know, more judging eyes and all).
  10. Just leaveWhen your kid decides to throw a tantrum and no reasoning will help, just leave the premises. Sometimes, it's best to acknowledge that, in the short term, you cannot effectively redirect your child's errant behavior. A missed family meal is unfortunate, but your food can be boxed and taken home. Meanwhile, your kid will have had a learning opportunity.