“I wanted to write to say, "Thank You"!!! Your site has been a Godsend and I believe we have found an almost perfect match, if not a perfect match:) Your site has been so fantastic. I love that privacy is protected, that we can log on and read, reread any communication and we can keep notes. Your sample interview questions, reference questions and sample contract have also been immensely helpful. I am so blessed to have found this site and am very blessed to have found someone so compatible with our family and our needs. Again, we are most grateful!!! Thank you!!!”
Published in CityParent
In today's age of the internet, finding a nanny seems easy, but as many families have learned, any nanny is not the right nanny. Hear are some common myths.
Myth #1. Nannies are for the wealthy - False
The federal government has identified income of $250,000 a year as the threshold for the wealthy. When asked hom much the family income was, 34 percent earned less than $100,000 per year, 22 percent earned between $100,000 and $150,000, 17.5 percent earned between $150,000 and $200,000 and 31 percent earned over $200,000. Working families are the ones most using nannies. (About 33 percent did not answer this question).
Myth #2. A nanny must work full-time - False
The nanny's schedule works around the schedule of the family. Of the families who responded to our surveys, 46.9 percent of the nannies worked part-time, with a range of hours per week varying from under 10 to 30. You will be able find a high quality nanny who can work with your schedule.
Myth #3. A nanny is not safe - False
In the study, "Healthy Steps for Young Children", the leading cause of injury to children was related to the family, not the nanny. Children of unmarried parents were the most likely to be injured. The conclusion of the study was, "Household composition seems to play a key role in placing children at risk for medically attended injuries." In a study that compared children who recieved home care, center-based care, and other forms of out-of-home child care, the rate of minor injuries was highest in the center-based care, but there was not a significant difference among the three.
Myth #4. I will not know what is going on in my house with a nanny - False
Working with a nanny is not a mystery. By setting up your communication systems at the start of your relationship, you will know everything that your child did that day. We recommend keeping a nanny journal, a daily reporting book where your nanny records important milestones, successes and challenges of the day. Seeing that your house is neat and clean, and that your child is happy, those are the best measures of you nanny's progress.
Myth #5. Hiring a nanny is too complicated - False
Hiring a qualified nanny is easier that you think. With an online database service like Nannies4hire.com, you can preview available nannies in your zip code in the comfort of your own home. You will see their picture, experience, health status, education and more. After you have narrowed your selection to two or three prospects, take advantage of the tools (such as the sample nanny contract found in the Appendix) that will give you peace of mind when hiring a nanny to care for your child.
Myth #6. A nanny will only take care of the children (no housework) - False
A nanny is an asset to a family and, in most cases, will help your house run smoothly. The most important criterion is not to burden a nanny with non-child related activities and detract from their primary responsibility: the care of you child. About 77 percent of the nannies who responded to our first survey in 2009 are doing child related activities (homework, errands, birthday parties, housework, laundry and meal perparation) while 19 percent are involved in famliy duties. In 2010, 79 percent are doing more that just watching children. When you get ready to hire your nanny, see how your nanny can help your family as a whole.
For new government regulations on employing a live-in caregiver visit http://www.labour.gov.on.ca.
Candi Wingate is a former nanny and now president of Nannies4Hire.com, Care4Hire.com, and Babysitters4Hire.com. For a copy of her book "The Nanny Factor, A Parent's Guide to Finding the Right Nanny for Your Family" visit www.nannies4hire.com.